When dating a man, smart women don’t talk about “sensitive topics,” but stupid women do the opposite

Although many people now choose to “not get married,” in fact, which woman doesn’t long for a sweet relationship?

Most women say they won’t get married or fall in love, but in fact they are still very much looking forward to it, and they will still give it a try when they meet a suitable man.

Being in love with the person you love is a very beautiful thing. That kind of satisfaction of being connected can only be brought to a woman by sweet love.

However, longing for love and understanding love are two completely different things.

Many women long for a beautiful love, but when they get along with men, they lose each other’s heart little by little.

But some women continue to deepen a man’s love for them as they get along, and eventually have a beautiful love that makes others envious.

After all, love needs to be managed, and men’s hormones need to be constantly stimulated by women. Otherwise, when the novelty wears off, the relationship between the two will come to an end.

Getting along with a man is not something that can be done as one pleases. Perhaps many women will think so: He has said that he loves me, so he should naturally tolerate everything about me, and he should accept all the good and bad.

However, the fact is that love cannot be treated casually. A woman must be measured when getting along with a man, otherwise she will lose the man’s love unknowingly.

Dating is indispensable in love. This can not only quickly bring the two people closer, but also understand some of the little habits of the other person’s life and integrate into the other person’s life faster.

However, there are ways to date. Smart women will never touch a man’s bottom line, let alone embarrass him. They will never bring up these three sensitive topics during a date.

It is said that material things are the basis of marriage. It is understandable for women to examine men’s material conditions, but they must pay attention to the method. Don’t ask about a man’s income when they first start dating.

After all, if a man earns a lot of money, you can tell by the way he wears it. If not, if you talk about this topic nakedly on a date, it is likely to arouse the disgust of the man.

A man may unintentionally label you as “material” and choose not to have any more contact with you.

If a man’s income is not that high, and you ask about the topic of income, the man will feel inferior, and the picture will not look good at that time.

If you think a man is pretty good, and you are satisfied with his character and abilities, and if you want to know more about a man’s material conditions, you might as well make inferences about the man’s work status, housing environment, etc. to infer the man’s income status.

In addition, if a man is willing to make progress and belongs to the potential stock series, you might as well take a longer-term view and don’t be obsessed with what the man has now.

When on a date, talk about happy topics, don’t mention unpleasant things, and just enjoy the moment.

Women are all suspicious, and they will unconsciously want to know their boyfriend’s emotional state, how many ex-girlfriends he has, what they do, and whether they are still in contact with him now.

Although you want to know about his past relationship status, it is nothing more than seeking peace of mind, but in the eyes of men, it is just looking for trouble.

In fact, most men are reluctant to disclose their relationship experiences. If they talk about it too much, they will look like scumbags. If they don’t talk about it, they will look unattractive. Therefore, they simply keep silent about it.

Even when you ask him how many ex-girlfriends he has, he will use anger to cover up his guilt and make you feel that he is being unreasonable.

In fact, knowing a man’s relationship status is harmful but not beneficial. After you know his ex-girlfriend, you can’t help but compare yourself. If you really feel that your ex-girlfriend is better than you, your heart will be unbalanced and you will be suspicious of the man. Do you still miss your ex-girlfriend?

As time goes by, if you argue about your ex-girlfriend for a long time, your relationship will be almost exhausted.

Therefore, don’t ask a man about his relationship experience out of curiosity, let alone talk about it during a date.

If you ask, it’s most likely that you’re making yourself unhappy. Don’t break up your relationship in the quarrel.

Furthermore, if a man really cares about you and wants to put your mind at ease, he will naturally take the initiative to explain his emotional experience.

If a man won’t tell you, then don’t ask, just pretend you don’t know. If a man repeatedly avoids this question, nine out of ten men are not so candid about their feelings. They can also guess some of the man’s temperament and avoid lightning early.

Men are very straightforward creatures. When dating, they want to do something relaxing, kiss, hug and hold each other high, and have a good relationship with women.

But women’s brain circuits are often different from men’s. When they fall in love to a certain point, they automatically assume the role of a hostess and interfere with men’s future plans.

But in fact, if a woman transitions from the role of a girlfriend to a wife too early, men will soon run out of novelty.

You feel that you have made sacrifices and done a lot for men, but men will think that you are nosy and take your efforts for granted, and they will feel at ease in the future.

Seriously, as a girlfriend, don’t worry about your wife’s affairs, don’t interfere in advance with the man’s future work plans, especially don’t discuss it with the man seriously during a date.

If you don’t want a man to waste you, and you want to know clearly whether you are in the man’s future, then find a formal occasion to bring it up, and don’t mix in heavy topics during the date.

You know, men are confused when they are not prepared. Even if they are thinking about developing a good relationship with you, they may not mean it when they say it.

In short, if a man puts you in his future plans, you won’t feel anything at all. If a man pretends to be stupid and hangs you, then tell him that there is no free lunch in the world.

When men and women get along, there are some topics that you really need to find the right time and opportunity to talk about.

Dating is a very sweet thing. After working for a long time, it is very relaxing and relaxing to meet up with your lover.

But often, conflicts can easily break out during a date. You say things you shouldn’t say or do things you shouldn’t do, making the date a cruel test that the other person doesn’t want to continue, which is eroding the love in each other’s hearts.

So women, don’t turn dating into a “court” to judge men. Men will feel a lot of pressure and refuse to date you next time.

Doing relaxing things in a relaxed setting is the real purpose of dating. Enjoy the moment, leave the fatigue of the week behind, and cherish the person who is by your side.

I believe that for those questions you want to know the answers to, he will give you the answers you want at a certain appropriate time.

Or maybe, he has already told you the answers to many questions through body language during constant interactions, but you just didn’t catch them.